![]() ![]() Step backĪnd you’re not perfect for each other, because he doesn’t want to be with you. And I fear you’re confusing sex with some kind of currency, treating it as a way to keep him around, or as proof that he is interested in you – or worse, as evidence that he owes you romantic attention because you’ve had sex with him. You entered into a friends-with-benefits relationship because it was fun and uncomplicated, and now it’s neither. Relationships are about truth, about loving and respecting each other for who and where you are right now.Īnd the hard truth of it is that he doesn’t love you, and you’re not respecting that. Because relationships built on one individual desperately trying to craft themselves into a person they think the other would love are not good, or healthy, or sustainable. Initially, I was going to add “unfortunately” – but that isn’t accurate. If only I can formulate the perfect intellectual argument for why they should love me, they’ll love me. If only I can get them to open up to me, they’ll see that we connect on a deep emotional level. If only I can come up with the perfect text message, they’ll write back. It’s a horrible place, full of anxiety and obsessive thoughts and constant inner deal-making. I think most people can relate to, remember and probably viscerally feel how painful it is to want someone who doesn’t want you back. ![]()
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